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March 2022

The CRA Punishes Two-Household Families

By |2022-03-13T09:32:12-07:00March 13th, 2022|Divorce Self-Help, Government Programs, News & Updates|

I originally posted this and emailed my MP in 2019, I never received a response. I have updated it and have resent it to the minister of finance. The issue persists. Dear Minister of Finance: I am a part-time single mom and a self-employed Chartered Professional Accountant. I work in the Collaborative Practice as a financial specialist to [...]

February 2022

Children

By |2022-02-15T13:50:22-08:00February 15th, 2022|News & Updates|

Having a child is not a chance for a do-over. Children are separate beings, and while they may have some of your traits, they are not you, and they are always going to be growing up in a vastly different world than the one in which you grew up. Have you seen the list of [...]

January 2022

The Future of the Child Support System

By |2022-02-03T14:32:05-08:00January 14th, 2022|News & Updates|

The Child Support System is Broken When will we stop with studies, anecdotal evidence, and "tweaks" to fix a broken Child Support System and go upstream and prevent people from falling into the broken system in the first place?  The current Child Support System perpetuates child poverty and trauma and leads to a never-ending cycle [...]

September 2021

Say Yes?

By |2021-09-05T15:13:02-07:00September 5th, 2021|Beginning Again, Self-Help, Small Business Tips|

In the very few moments when I wasn't working this year, I was thinking about working better. I got in over my head by saying yes to all work that came my way. Why did I say yes? Saying yes was my lifeline out of pandemic limbo. It combined with my life training not to [...]

August 2021

Balance

By |2021-08-22T11:14:32-07:00August 22nd, 2021|News & Updates|

Photo by Joshua Earle on Unsplash Balance. This past year I fell out of balance. The pandemic hit more than a year ago - at the time, no one knew what was going to happen - everything was uncertain, the world slowed down (unless you were a front-line worker), and many people either had nothing [...]

January 2021

Finding Happiness

By |2023-10-15T12:55:42-07:00January 3rd, 2021|News & Updates|

What are your rules for a successful life? And how did you develop the rules you follow? I frequently ask myself that question, as most of my life, I followed a set of rules that I seemed to have absorbed from the air around me. Only within the last ten years did I begin designing [...]

December 2020

A COVID Christmas

By |2020-12-29T15:24:02-08:00December 29th, 2020|Self-Help|

Christmas, I am not a fan. Why, as a society, have we not yet outgrown the need for Christmas? Why does Christmas persist? Why, oh, why won't we come to our collective societal senses and banish it once and for all? I have come to the conclusion that Christmas is a self-perpetuating system, a feedback [...]

September 2020

What a Budget Can Do for You

By |2020-09-21T10:13:27-07:00September 21st, 2020|Divorce Self-Help, Financial Self-Help|

One of the primary services I provide is assisting my clients with preparing budgets. I've noticed that clients only ask for help with a budget when they've gotten to the point where they don't know what else to do. The word "budget" seems to invoke fear and resistance in the minds of many people. To [...]

June 2020

Current Societal Policies and Team Sports

By |2020-09-12T12:01:09-07:00June 9th, 2020|News & Updates|

First off, my child is a boy, but my article applies equally to girls, and perhaps, even more. Our current sports policy ensures that most girls will give up on sport by the age of thirteen, though lately, I see this tide turn as we convince more girls to follow the current societal model to [...]

May 2020

Are You Really Alone? Part II: Connection

By |2020-05-02T16:21:10-07:00May 2nd, 2020|Self-Help|

Photo by Bruno Figueiredo on Unsplash There has been a recent spate of discussion about the importance of Connection. Unconnected people feel alone, and lonely people, not surprisingly, don't have as positive health outcomes as those people who feel loved and connected to the world. It only took a pandemic and a bunch of people who were suddenly [...]

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