Beginning Again

Slow and Steady

By |2023-06-08T10:38:41-07:00June 8th, 2023|Beginning Again, Financial Self-Help|

Photo by Naja Bertolt Jensen on Unsplash Do you ever have revelations when you say to yourself: "Oh, now I know why that is a saying!" I do. In fact, despite having a revelation about a saying, I seem to forget that I've already had that revelation because I feel like I'm constantly having "revelations."   [...]

Communication – Rules for Life

By |2022-11-03T10:59:47-07:00November 3rd, 2022|Beginning Again, Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

I'm an accountant. Accountants are notoriously bad at communication. Often, someone chooses to become an accountant because numbers are so straightforward. They are clear, concise, and easy to line up, deal with and sort. They are usually associated with projects and decisions with clear outcomes. I have stated it and will repeat it – I [...]

Say Yes?

By |2021-09-05T15:13:02-07:00September 5th, 2021|Beginning Again, Self-Help, Small Business Tips|

In the very few moments when I wasn't working this year, I was thinking about working better. I got in over my head by saying yes to all work that came my way. Why did I say yes? Saying yes was my lifeline out of pandemic limbo. It combined with my life training not to [...]

Pandemic and Divorce

By |2024-09-01T12:13:18-07:00March 29th, 2020|Beginning Again, Divorce Self-Help|

Photo by Wolf Schram on Unsplash It is C+16 since my world changed. Pardon me if you don't understand my lingo. Ironically, I am reading "Seveneves" by Neal Stephenson, a story about a BIG world change, the destruction of earth due to an Agent that breaks up the moon into little pieces. The science is over my head, [...]

Stuck—Unstuck

By |2020-02-09T09:04:19-08:00February 9th, 2020|Beginning Again|

Are you stuck? I don't know, you think to yourself. Define "stuck." Repeating the same patterns, doing the same thing over and over again, unable to do things any differently, feeling controlled, trapped, all while feeling an emotion that you know is the opposite of content. Stuck Searching for the exit in a maze for [...]

Are You Really Alone?

By |2022-08-08T11:31:07-07:00November 3rd, 2019|Beginning Again, Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

Photo by Noah Silliman on Unsplash Hi, Yesterday you inspired me to write this post. Why? Because I only write about what I know, and everything you said resonated with me. "I know that," I thought to myself. "Yes, I've felt that way too." I had a consoling platitude for everything you said. I wanted [...]

Money and Divorce

By |2018-02-06T15:46:18-08:00February 6th, 2018|Beginning Again, Divorce Self-Help|

  A few months ago I was at a presentation about money. It was not a presentation about new tax rules or how to invest, but it was about how hard it is to talk about money. "I know that!"  I thought to myself. A+ for me. Why is talking about money so hard? Well, [...]

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