It is pretty darn easy to get married. All you really need is a license and hey - it only costs $100! Of course some people have fancy weddings and yes, they take a lot to organize and can be costly. But you get a choice in doing that. You don't get the same choice when [...]
What if. What do you normally think right after those two words? I tend to think what if...CATASTROPHE! My preponderance to imagine the worst case scenario is so ingrained in me that even though I have proven to myself that the worst case scenario NEVER happens, I still always go to what if..CATASTROPHE as my first [...]
What is your relationship with money? I thought I'd better ask you again because I have been assuming you have a similar relationship to money that I have. Lately I've been realizing that my assumptions often get me into hot water. So to figure out if you have similar money issues to me, I'd better [...]
Let's face it. Life can be a struggle. As one friend recently posted on Facebook "life is like a roller coaster! I HATE ROLLER COASTERS!" That post got me thinking. I too hate roller coasters, so much so, that I avoid places that have them just so I won't even have to think about going on [...]
I don't know where to start with this blog post but I know the outcome I want. I know what I need to say but I'm not sure how it is going to look when I finally do say it. I am relying on my values and my life experiences to be pulled forth from [...]
Have you ever thought of yourself as a bad mother? I know I have. In fact, "I'm a bad mother" is a like a tagline that accompanies all my parenting mistakes. Despite knowing that parenting is challenging and I couldn't possibly be expected to get it right the first time (especially as I don't research [...]
I like to find answers to the problems in life. I realize that this is impossible and I will drive myself crazy trying to find one answer to life but this week I really feel like I'm getting close. Really. Close. This week I've decided that when we get into a rough patch it's all [...]
If not, there's a good reason. My divorce was a Collaborative Divorce. What does that mean? On the surface, it means that you agree to keep your divorce out of the courts. That was one of the reasons why I agreed to try the process when I was getting a divorce from my husband. There [...]
I was trained to believe that being busy means you are important. This wasn't overt training. It was training I chose to believe from observing the world around me. OK, there was a bit of overt training in school. I see it now when I see what I'm doing to my children at the start [...]
When do you decide to give up on your marriage, call it quits and ask for a divorce? I ask this question, because I truly do not know the answer. I never made this decision, my ex made it for both of us. I myself know I would probably have stuck in my marriage until [...]