It's a Journey

Renaming the Divorcemobile

Renaming the Divorcemobile

Renaming the Divorcemobile A client once asked me what kind of car to buy. I didn't have a standard answer, because it depends entirely on the person, their situation, and what actually matters to them, which is different for everyone. Making decisions more easily...

My Worst Client

My Worst Client It's December 19th. I'd planned to go Christmas shopping; it was getting close to the wire, but it started to slush, and after a short walk, I was left soaked and cold, so I decided to leave it until tomorrow, when it's supposed to be sunny. I can shop...

Communication – Rules for Life

Communication – Rules for Life

Rules for Communication (or Rules for Life) I'm an accountant. Accountants are notoriously bad at communication, and there's usually a reason: numbers are straightforward, clear, concise, easy to line up and sort. I love doing taxes. You put the numbers in their...

Rest Got me here

Rest Got Me Here My blogging has taken a hit lately. My last post was February 3rd. That's a long time. Blog hiatuses are a pattern with me. Tax season, kids, summer, Kits Pool, biking, hiking, life...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.