It's a Journey

Luck Shouldn’t Be Part of It

Luck Shouldn't Be Part of It When telling the story of my divorce, at some point I say: I was lucky that when my spouse and I separated, the news was spotlighting the Collaborative Process. A news article led us to find the lawyers who helped us transform our lives...

Evolution Vs. Change

Evolution Vs. Change

"Life is a journey, not a destination." "Life is beautiful." I stare at both mantras daily as I eat dinner with my kids. They stare out at me from placemats my parents gave me for Christmas ten years ago. I wholeheartedly agree with my placemats, but I haven't lived...

The Slowest Way (But Really, It’s Faster)

The Slow Way (But Really, It's the Fastest) There's a version of my own separation agreement on page five that laid out my plan to get my old career back. It was there because everyone around me, lawyers, family, well-meaning friends, assumed that was obviously the...

Evolution Vs. Change

Evolution Vs. Change

"Life is a journey, not a destination." "Life is beautiful." I stare at both mantras daily as I eat dinner with my kids. They stare out at me from placemats my parents gave me for Christmas ten...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.