It's a Journey

Choosing a family Justice professional

How to Choose a Family Justice Professional People usually don't think about which process they want until they're already in crisis, and by then, the first professional they call often becomes the path they're on, whether or not it's the right fit. There isn't one...

Screening 101

Screening 101 Who this is for If you're separating and about to hire a lawyer, mediator, or anyone else to help you through the family justice system, this is for you. The first meeting sets your path. The right professional gets you the right help. The wrong one can...

The Job Nobody Trained Me For

The Job Nobody Trained Me For I have a professional designation for numbers. Nobody gave me one for what actually happens in a separation process. Split the assets, calculate the support, file the paperwork. Almost nobody makes those decisions from a place of clarity....

Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.