It's a Journey

What If?

What If What do you normally think right after those two words? I tend to think: what if... catastrophe. My propensity to imagine the worst is so deeply ingrained that even after proving to myself, again and again, that the worst case never actually happens,...

Not Enough

Not Enough What's your relationship with money? I ask because I've assumed for a while now that yours looks something like mine. Lately I've noticed my assumptions tend to get me into trouble. Here's my money history, in case it helps you check. I've always operated...

The Blame Game

Blame and Happiness I went to a great workshop a few weeks ago put on by Dr. Sue Goldswain and John Boland. If you're ever in the market for a marriage counsellor, they're worth looking into. One...

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hire yourself

Hire Yourself Tax season always brought the same question to mind: why is it still this stressful for so many people, when the software gets easier and cheaper every year? I've seen the full range....

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.