It's a Journey
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Four Years Out
If anyone had told me then how long it would take to get to the place 4 years ago, it would have depressed me further than I already was. But if they had told me how happy I would be, I would be surprised.
Start with the Envelope
Start With the Envelope Most people don't ease into looking at their finances. They wait until the discomfort of not looking outweighs the discomfort of actually doing it, then they do it all at...
Marriage is Easy, Divorce isn’t. Get a Marriage Agreement
Marriage Is Easy. Divorce Isn't. Get a Marriage Agreement. It's pretty easy to get married. All you need is a license, and when I was practicing, it cost about $100. Some people have fancy weddings,...
What If?
What If What do you normally think right after those two words? I tend to think: what if... catastrophe. My propensity to imagine the worst is so deeply ingrained that even after proving to myself,...
Advocate, Mom, Writer
My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.
Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.