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Sustainable Decisions

by | Nov 21, 2023

Sustainable Decisions Recently, I spoke with a friend going through major life transitions. Like many of us, she and her family are stressed. My friend is in her late 40s with two children under 11. Her husband, also in his late 40s, recently quit his job. He realized...

Zip, Zero, Nada

by | Nov 20, 2023

Zip, Zero, Nada Does salary level determine a job's worth, or a person's? Most of us would say "no way," including myself, yet actions and behaviour speak louder than words. When I was earning a decent salary, some might have called it indecent for my age; people...

Extortion, By any other name

by | Nov 19, 2023

Extortion, By Another Name Systems are insidious. They keep us trapped even when we know better. How do we escape one? I don't know. I'm part of this one. It surrounds me; I can't elude it, and I'm forced to be complicit. The family justice system is one of those...

Extortion, By any other name

Nov 19, 2023 |

Extortion, By Another Name Systems are insidious. They keep us trapped even when we know better. How do we escape one? I don't know. I'm part of this one. It surrounds me; I can't elude it, and I'm...

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Getting out of Limbo

Apr 2, 2020 |

Getting out of limbo   It is C+16 since my world changed, and I find myself in limbo. Pardon me if you don't understand my lingo. Coincidentally, I am reading "Seveneves" by Neal Stephenson, a...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.