It's a Journey
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Redesigning your Life around your values
Redesigning Your Life Around Your Values You're stuck somewhere in your life. In debt, in conflict, something's just happened, and you're running on autopilot just to get through the day. If any of...
Use the Discomfort
Use the Discomfort Today I woke up feeling unmotivated. I tried to work for a bit, decided it wasn't going anywhere, and took a break instead. I got to thinking about how cold my house was, the...
I’m (Not) Worried About You
I'm (Not) Worried About You "I'm worried about you." I'll never forget when someone said that to me. It was the last day of my back-to-work training course, and the facilitator looked at me with...
The People Pleaser trap
The People Pleaser Trap I got to start over- thank you, divorce- and my first real step in starting over was figuring out who I actually was and what I valued. I know by now that if I'm not living...
Advocate, Mom, Writer
My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.
Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.