It's a Journey
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Avoid then capitulate
Avoid, Then Capitulate Collaboration works through exploration. Here's what I mean by that. We're all a bit like icebergs. A small part of us shows above the surface, but the real mass, the values...
The BAD MOTHER tagline
I wrote the post below back when I was recently separated with two young children, in the thick of grief and anger, most of it aimed at my ex. I felt like I had no control over my own life. The Bad...
Blame’s Fault
Blame's Fault I like finding answers to the problems in life. I know that's impossible, and that chasing one single answer to everything will drive me a little crazy, but this week I feel like I'm...
Why i almost didn’t believe in the collaborative process
Why I Almost Didn't Believe in the Collaborative Process My own divorce was a Collaborative Divorce, meaning we agreed to stay out of court. That was the pitch at the time: family law in BC was...
Advocate, Mom, Writer
My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.
Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.