It's a Journey

Getting out of Limbo

Getting out of limbo   It is C+16 since my world changed, and I find myself in limbo. Pardon me if you don't understand my lingo. Coincidentally, I am reading "Seveneves" by Neal Stephenson, a story about a BIG world change: the destruction of Earth because an...

Living Apart Together and Personal Finances

We're Basically a LAT Couple Living Apart Together, LAT for short, is the latest acronym for couples who are romantically involved but choose not to move in together. After yuppies and DINKs, now we have LATs. I sometimes wonder why this wasn't a thing when I was...

Getting Through the Wall of Pain and Suffering

Getting Through the Wall of Pain and Suffering

Getting Through the Wall of Pain and Suffering I often come across clients who are on a path that brings deep emotional pain, and they can't see how to find a healing way forward. I want to help my clients find a better, less emotionally overwhelming path. Still, I've...

Renaming the Divorcemobile

Renaming the Divorcemobile

Renaming the Divorcemobile A client once asked me what kind of car to buy. I didn't have a standard answer, because it depends entirely on the person, their situation, and what actually matters to...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.