It's a Journey

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Evolution Vs. Change

Evolution Vs. Change

by | Feb 3, 2024

"Life is a journey, not a destination." "Life is beautiful." I stare at both mantras daily as I eat dinner with my kids. They stare out at me from placemats my parents gave me for Christmas ten years ago. I wholeheartedly agree with my placemats, but I haven't lived...

The Slowest Way (But Really, It’s Faster)

by | Dec 27, 2023

The Slow Way (But Really, It's the Fastest) There's a version of my own separation agreement on page five that laid out my plan to get my old job back. It was there because everyone around me- lawyers, family, well-meaning friends- assumed that was obviously the right...

Zip, Zero, Nada

by | Nov 20, 2023

Zip, Zero, Nada Does salary level determine a job's worth, or a person's? Most of us would say "no way," including myself, yet actions and behaviour speak louder than words. When I was earning a decent salary, some might have called it indecent for my age; people...

Getting out of Limbo

Apr 2, 2020 |

Getting out of limbo   It is C+16 since my world changed, and I find myself in limbo. Pardon me if you don't understand my lingo. Coincidentally, I am reading "Seveneves" by Neal Stephenson, a...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.