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It’s Mostly Perspective

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:50+00:00 December 10th, 2015|Financial Self-Help, Self-Help|

Last's week's post is missing.  Where did it go? It got decimated by the negative internal chatter and negative future focus that was going on in my brain for the last two weeks. When I finally got out from it, this week's blog post presented itself: Your victimhood perspective is making you stuck. You know [...]

Revelation and Patience

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 November 26th, 2015|Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

I have a friend and she has two sets of what look like playing cards, called Life Cards and Angel Cards. Every once in awhile, she drags them out of the cupboard and we pick one of each (without looking). It's something that takes about 10 minutes but it is an exercise that drags us back [...]

Relationship George Vs. Independent George

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 November 18th, 2015|Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

Not sure if many of you watched Seinfeld back in the day it originally aired. I did and there is one episode that really resonates with me right now. What I remember about the episode is the fact that George was in conflict with his two personas:  Independent George and Relationship George. Relationship George was [...]

Coaching verses Commanding

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 October 21st, 2015|Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

  "People turn up in your life when you need them." This was said to me by someone recently and she was essentially predicting her appearance in my life. At the time of our meeting, I was actually thinking: "I do not need this person at all in my life." She blew in the door and [...]

Transition Days

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 August 18th, 2015|Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

I often wonder if there are other parents out there like me. I start wondering it about five minutes after dropping my kids off at school. Day one of five days they are with their dad on our 2255 parenting schedule. Are there other parents out there that know what a 2255 parenting schedule means? [...]

How Do You View the Past?

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 August 7th, 2015|Divorce Self-Help, Self-Help|

  When you think of your life up until this point does it make you happy or do you focus on the negative aspects of your past and use it as an excuse to stop moving forward? How we view the past often depends on how we perceive our present life. If you are living [...]

Strategies for the Saver/Spender Relationship

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:51+00:00 August 6th, 2015|Financial Personalities, Financial Planning Steps, Self-Help|

Step 1 - Identify Your Financial Personality and Spending Habits What is the dream you have that money will serve? Answering this question for yourself will go a long way to self-awareness about your values and beliefs around money. Everyone is unique and has different values and beliefs concerning money. In addition, we are all brought [...]