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I’m (Not) Worried About You

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:53+00:00 October 27th, 2014|Beginning Again|

I'll never forget when someone said that to me. It was the last day of my back-to-work training course and the facilitator looked at me with her very understanding eyes and said "I worry about you." Of all the 20 women in the class, she worried about me.  Being an introvert I couldn't ask her [...]

People Pleasers

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:54+00:00 October 22nd, 2014|Beginning Again|

I have gotten to start again (thank you divorce) and my first step for starting again was figuring myself out and what my values are. I know that if I am not living according to my own values, I will be unhappy, unmotivated and unsuccessful. I continually see how this lesson plays out every day [...]

You’re Divorced? Congratulations!

By | 2016-11-25T02:24:54+00:00 October 22nd, 2014|Beginning Again|

Someday, one of your friends is gonna get divorced, it’s gonna happen, and they're gonna tell you. Don’t go, “ohhh I'm sorry.” That’s a stupid thing to say. First of all, you're making ‘em feel bad for being really happy, which isn't fair and second of all: DIVORCE IS ALWAYS GOOD NEWS. I know that [...]